Friday, June 10, 2011

Am I a bad mother?

Sleep deprived,work stress, personal problems and bad weather mmg mampu menjadikan mana2 mommy yg bersabar hilang sabarnya.Esp when you have a son with the out loud personality.
The drama queen (read king for Iman!).

Iman oh Iman.
But I know, Iman cries are with reasons.
Bila nangis before tidor-he's sleepy.Extremely. But does'nt know yet how to fall asleep by himself.
Bila nanges mommy lambat salin lampin yg dh poopoo..sb jln Lipis-Raub-Bentong manader rest area hygienic.euww! Anak mommy nk bgtau mommy I'm a hygenic kinda boy.Please change me mommy.
Bila nanges nk susu.And terus on top volume,xbagi2 dh hint..means that he's very persistent.And insist to be fed.Skrg!!! :)

Bila nanges daddy dokong,nak mommy juga!sbnrnya he's way to say ; xmau daddy!bau asap rokok.busyuk!nk mommy!w/pn bau bwg tp ttp lbh sedap dr asap rokok! hehe..just joking yang!jgn marah :)

Sabar je lah.

But from baby center i found an interesting about babies personality..yg out loud and drama queen mcm Iman shows persistence and how he is very keen on doing what he has in mind at the moment. Klu dh besar nti, semua buat bersungguh2..The more active and responsive your child means brain activity.ye ke?
Hope that's true.Biarla mommy penat melayan all these trantrums.May you become somebody good one day!Membesar bagai juara.skrg mommy tahan je,your screaming bagai juara..huhu~

Kdg2 hubby suka bandingkan Iman dgn cousins yg diam je.bleh dok sorg2 main.kna tggal lama atas comforter pn xkesah, kna mandi pn xkesah, berak pn xkesah..xnanges pn.dh lapar sgt2 baru nanges.
Salin lampin pn dok diam je..xtergedik2 terkinja2 mcm iman yg mcm nak swim goyang kaki kepak tangan sampai tendang pampers out of place.

Well, for mommy,klu nk baby mcm tu, baik bela anak patung jer..hehe~
Haru2~

Ok la.After reading the article, now I can (read: would really like to) relate tantrums and actively responsing baby(read : I dont wanna be alone baby) means he's really developing into an outgoing personality. Yeah, I like that.Tp that doesn't mean i tolerate bad manners. Lbh baik jd A student yg cikgu sume knal,join sume activity kat sekolah such as story telling,debate etc..drp jd student baik yg dok kat hujung kelas and nobody remembers you unless they open back the year book.huhu~

I don't know,but the way we're brought up differs kan?So of course la mommy and daddy akan bercanggah pendapat in parenting skills.We got married pn in the first place was to saling melengkapi kekurangan masing2.

I'm just grateful that i have a mother who let me be whoever i want to be under her watchful eyes as long as I dont go astray.The mother who allowed me to take automotive engineering instead of nagging that all girls should be teachers. The mother who allowed me to marry whoever i liked to. The mother who taught me everything i should learn in primary 1,2,3 before im 6yrs till I got bored at school scoring all 100 in all tests.

Now I'd like to do just the same or even better for Iman.Though his father may have other plans.
We'll see how.

2 comments:

ilyramli said...

lega aku bc entri ko...anak aku slalu bikin aku panasss...especially time salin pampers...hahaha

Ummu Iman Amsyar said...

kdg2 bila dh letih seharian bekerja.blk kerja Iman pula meragam..mmg mencabar kesabaran.letih2.tp xbaik merungut kan?hehehe

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jom terjah :)
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