Announcing-My 40 days ends tmorrow!
Yeay!!~
Mmg rmai yg buat 44days ataupun 60day..ataupun 100days pantang.
But for me..cukuplah takat 40 days ;)
Siap dh ada plan nak date dgn hubby mlm ni..hehe~
Bila dh dok umah lelamer mula lah addicted to mcm drama tv..tp xsemua lah..dh mls nk layan drama philipphines and indon.yelah..dh dok kejenya menyusukan amsyar yg mmg suka mendempeng~
kadanag bila fikir blk..maybe dia ada instinct yg this will be his only chance to be 24-7 with me.btul la tuh..bila dh start kerja mmg bila masa sgt yg kita akan betul2 bercuti and spend time solely utk anak. Even weekends kita full with activities.Time tulah baru nk membelek segala debu kat umah, laundry day, groceries shopping day, recipe trial day for dearest hubby..ehemm~ Tak tahu lah org lain, tapi for me, itulah nyer.. Belum masuk weekends yg ada kenduri, birthday parties, mak mertua nak dtg umah etc etc. Macam-macam hal..hehe.
Well normal la tu..nama pun life.So it must be full of colors kan?
Itu lah colors hidup org yg dh berumah tangga.
Kalau yg bujang, lain pula color nya...teringat dulu2 masa bujang, kul 9mlm je dh xde bende nk buat walhal keluar dr ofis 7pm. Mmm..bila dh mcm tu mcm2 pula bende2 yg xsepatutnya buat dan mengperabis boreh dibuat. You name it..g main boling la, g movie marathon la, g karaoke..alangkah byknya duit yg klu disimpan pd masa tu dh menjadikan bonus ASB aku setiap tahun boleh hantar mak g buat haji T_T.
Byk pula tulis and merapu pagi2 ni..sbnrnya tgh pump whilst Amsyar tido. Baru nak mula stock up. Ramadhan's coming soon-so byk la yg kita kena plan for the holy month.Haraplah2 berjaya..sikit sikit, wlupun xbyk. Alhamdulillah~
Ok..Amsyar dh bangun.
So till then.
Zahra
Saturday, June 30, 2012
Friday, June 29, 2012
Amsyar 1st check-up
Last wednesday, we had a visit to the Klinik Kesihatan for Amsyar's 1mth jab :)
A lil bit late due to several circumstances but we made it.Yeay!!~
Had also post natal check up for me and some consultation with the practitioner.
Since takde siapa dirumah we tag along Iman as well. So the rombongan cik kiah this morning members were me, amsyar, zakiyya and also Iman.Seronok Iman berjalan2..tegur semua other kids yg sebaya dgn dia. Siap salam cium tgn lagi. He also attempted to kiss one sweet girl circa his age..cute sgt..hahhaaha~
Baik2 iman..marah mak budak pempuan tu nanti.
Ramai pulak org pg tu at the clinic..so the waiting time was quite long. Mujur Iman tak meragam.Alhamdulillah~
Everything was ok with me. Hb already normal. Urine clear. BP 120/80.
Just berat je still another 4kg to go to my already overweight pre-pregnancy weight..haha~
Amsyar was doing well too.
Born 3.1kg, now Amsyar is already 3.85kg (i tgk kat penimbang 3.9 dh..tp nurse tu tgk dgn ralat parallax..huhu~)
Panjang dh 54cm :)
Masa lahir br 50cm.cepat juga..tp ni pun unreliable reading jugak sb body baby kat masa lahir krengkot-krengkot..so 50cm is only the best estimation :)
Alhamdulillah..at least i know that Amsyar is getting enough milk.
Alhamdulillah.
So, after all the breastfeeding tips and terms given by the doctor esp for the coming Ramadhan, I asked several questions on contraception. Cegah kehamilan..because this time I'm really determined to have another one in at least 5yrs from now.Insyallah, if i have the chance la of course-jika umur still panjang, still sehat, and still di panjangkan jodoh with my beloved.Insyallah~
Ok this maybe not everyone's cup of tea..so you are welcome to continue blog hopping if this issue disturbs you (esp if you're reading with the office PC and may cause sudden blush..hahaha).
After few readings, I was interested with IUCD and asked for the docs opinion. She said that i could have it on as early as 42 days but to make all safe (in engineering terms we call this the safety factor...hehehe) she says that in my case, after 2 c-sects its better to have the device on after at least 3mths. Oho..
At first I was ok with that. Because i plan to have a strict NO-NO to intercourse (selamber badak je tulis kat sini) for 100days this time.Pantang. Kang 6mths kang kejam sgt pulak..naya kat laki den. tapi..me myself pun cannot trust myself..camno?Nama nya pun plan.haha~
Puan dokter tu mcm tahu tahu je apa yg aku pikir, terus sambung that in that 3mths duration (or until i'm ready), I should be on Noriday starting from the 6th week after giving birth. Just in case..(haha..tengok rekod kehamilan aku lerr tu~). Tp Noriday ni hanya berkesan if and only if I consume the pill religiously the same time everyday..and i breastfeed exclusively. So this is hard work.hmm.. Tp pill pun pill juga..i will make sure we use other methods as well. Yang kira2 waktu subur tu dh proven tak berkesan for us sebab I could declare we're subur all the time.and still young..ok cukuplah tu..
Point taken.
Ok.amsyar terjaga plak.
Till then..to be continued...
Love,
Zahra
A lil bit late due to several circumstances but we made it.Yeay!!~
Had also post natal check up for me and some consultation with the practitioner.
Since takde siapa dirumah we tag along Iman as well. So the rombongan cik kiah this morning members were me, amsyar, zakiyya and also Iman.Seronok Iman berjalan2..tegur semua other kids yg sebaya dgn dia. Siap salam cium tgn lagi. He also attempted to kiss one sweet girl circa his age..cute sgt..hahhaaha~
Baik2 iman..marah mak budak pempuan tu nanti.
Ramai pulak org pg tu at the clinic..so the waiting time was quite long. Mujur Iman tak meragam.Alhamdulillah~
Everything was ok with me. Hb already normal. Urine clear. BP 120/80.
Just berat je still another 4kg to go to my already overweight pre-pregnancy weight..haha~
Amsyar was doing well too.
Born 3.1kg, now Amsyar is already 3.85kg (i tgk kat penimbang 3.9 dh..tp nurse tu tgk dgn ralat parallax..huhu~)
Panjang dh 54cm :)
Masa lahir br 50cm.cepat juga..tp ni pun unreliable reading jugak sb body baby kat masa lahir krengkot-krengkot..so 50cm is only the best estimation :)
Alhamdulillah..at least i know that Amsyar is getting enough milk.
Alhamdulillah.
So, after all the breastfeeding tips and terms given by the doctor esp for the coming Ramadhan, I asked several questions on contraception. Cegah kehamilan..because this time I'm really determined to have another one in at least 5yrs from now.Insyallah, if i have the chance la of course-jika umur still panjang, still sehat, and still di panjangkan jodoh with my beloved.Insyallah~
Ok this maybe not everyone's cup of tea..so you are welcome to continue blog hopping if this issue disturbs you (esp if you're reading with the office PC and may cause sudden blush..hahaha).
After few readings, I was interested with IUCD and asked for the docs opinion. She said that i could have it on as early as 42 days but to make all safe (in engineering terms we call this the safety factor...hehehe) she says that in my case, after 2 c-sects its better to have the device on after at least 3mths. Oho..
At first I was ok with that. Because i plan to have a strict NO-NO to intercourse (selamber badak je tulis kat sini) for 100days this time.Pantang. Kang 6mths kang kejam sgt pulak..naya kat laki den. tapi..me myself pun cannot trust myself..camno?Nama nya pun plan.haha~
Puan dokter tu mcm tahu tahu je apa yg aku pikir, terus sambung that in that 3mths duration (or until i'm ready), I should be on Noriday starting from the 6th week after giving birth. Just in case..(haha..tengok rekod kehamilan aku lerr tu~). Tp Noriday ni hanya berkesan if and only if I consume the pill religiously the same time everyday..and i breastfeed exclusively. So this is hard work.hmm.. Tp pill pun pill juga..i will make sure we use other methods as well. Yang kira2 waktu subur tu dh proven tak berkesan for us sebab I could declare we're subur all the time.and still young..ok cukuplah tu..
Point taken.
Ok.amsyar terjaga plak.
Till then..to be continued...
Love,
Zahra
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Rezeki itu belum saya yg punya
Recently, I was smitten by the news of few colleagues who were the roots and backbone of our team had tendered their resignation due to personal reasons. Some of them, were great leaders, some were even subject matter experts who really know their job. I mean technical experts. It requires you at least 5yrs to master designing skills..but to become an expert you need more than just all those years. This hit me hard that maybe its time to change.
But I still believe that rezeki comes in so many forms that i need to be grateful for what i have now, as the future is still not that clear. Your paycheck is your rezeki. That's pretty clear. But the happiness and all the joy that you feel lingers in the air you breath is also a form of rezeki. The children that you brought up together is also rezeki. Imagine your life without the calm feeling you felt when you kiss your child goodnight.
I always believe that my husband is my source of rezeki.
Frankly speaking, what he makes in a month for us living an urban life in Shah Alam is no luxury. But the things, the thoughts, the warmth, his loving family, his thoughtful friends always made me felt so blessed. Parcels of mango from mama in Kelate when i crave for some, a tupperware of durians from an office mate bila abg ngadu sy mengidam durian tp xjumpa sb blum musim, a huge box of cake from another friend's wifey bila dia bake lebih and teringat abg suka kek sebegini, a big container of spaghetti bolognese from another friend on our house warming night mana tau perlu ditambah tambah menunya - are the examples of rezeki I find quite amusing that he brings in to our small home.Mungkin abg mmg pandai berkawan..hingga ramai yang sayang. Mungkin inilah yg dinamakan rezeki. These are the examples of rezeki that I usually neglect to notice.That is to just name a few. It's hard to be very close to friends who have their wife happy enough to remember you as well :)
Alhamdulillah...
How easy my life have become after getting married to him. And how my wish to live in a house of my own is fulfilled. And for the two beautiful children..I think that should be quite clear as well.
Yang penting he never fails to berusaha utk jadikan hidup kami lbh bermakna. one of his traits that made me decide to marry him. And I should always be grateful. This i should always remind myself as human tend to forget. Bukan melayu shj mudah lupa.
Alhamdulillah.Murah rezeki abg.
Memurahkan lagi rezeki saya..
Saya pernah terbaca tentang pentingnya keberkatan dlm mencari rezeki..selain mensyukuri rezeki yg slalunya kita tak perasan cthnya susu yg mengalir dr kita utk anak kita. Yang mana, we really need to work hard for what we had agreed to be paid for. Even kalau kita curi tulang and there's no one in the authority nak potong gaji kamu, your rezeki will be cut off in many other forms. Cthnya di uji dgn anak yg degil, di panas kan hubungan antara suami isteri hatta diperlambatkan jodoh utk kita. Hmm..this is really for me sbg peringatan utk tak culas bekerja after this. And there is no harm if you give 130% to what you have been committed for. Allah kan maha melihat and maha mengetahui. He'll pay you what you deserve. Samada diberikan kwn2 yg sentiasa menyenangkan, menimbulkan kesenangan dihati pasangan kita mahupun diberikan anak penyejuk hati yg sentiasa taat dan soleh.Rezeki2 mcm ni lah yg slalunya kita tak nmpak.
Ntahla.This is just my 2cents.bila smp ke bende2 yg ghaib mcm ni hanya Allah yg tahu kedudukan kita. Yang nk pindah, pindahlah..masa saya belum tiba. rezeki saya masih disini. Saya masih boleh ke tempat kerja dgn senang hati..jalan ke ofis beriring suami dan boleh solat ditempat kerja dgn aman.
Duit bukan lah ukuran rezeki semata mata.
For those who have given up hopes and highs, i wish you good luck and bid you farewell.
May the new place you have just invested your whole life into, brings you more happiness and prosperity.
Love,
Zahra
But I still believe that rezeki comes in so many forms that i need to be grateful for what i have now, as the future is still not that clear. Your paycheck is your rezeki. That's pretty clear. But the happiness and all the joy that you feel lingers in the air you breath is also a form of rezeki. The children that you brought up together is also rezeki. Imagine your life without the calm feeling you felt when you kiss your child goodnight.
I always believe that my husband is my source of rezeki.
Frankly speaking, what he makes in a month for us living an urban life in Shah Alam is no luxury. But the things, the thoughts, the warmth, his loving family, his thoughtful friends always made me felt so blessed. Parcels of mango from mama in Kelate when i crave for some, a tupperware of durians from an office mate bila abg ngadu sy mengidam durian tp xjumpa sb blum musim, a huge box of cake from another friend's wifey bila dia bake lebih and teringat abg suka kek sebegini, a big container of spaghetti bolognese from another friend on our house warming night mana tau perlu ditambah tambah menunya - are the examples of rezeki I find quite amusing that he brings in to our small home.Mungkin abg mmg pandai berkawan..hingga ramai yang sayang. Mungkin inilah yg dinamakan rezeki. These are the examples of rezeki that I usually neglect to notice.That is to just name a few. It's hard to be very close to friends who have their wife happy enough to remember you as well :)
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| One of my favs as hubby brings back to us. |
Alhamdulillah...
How easy my life have become after getting married to him. And how my wish to live in a house of my own is fulfilled. And for the two beautiful children..I think that should be quite clear as well.
Yang penting he never fails to berusaha utk jadikan hidup kami lbh bermakna. one of his traits that made me decide to marry him. And I should always be grateful. This i should always remind myself as human tend to forget. Bukan melayu shj mudah lupa.
Alhamdulillah.Murah rezeki abg.
Memurahkan lagi rezeki saya..
Saya pernah terbaca tentang pentingnya keberkatan dlm mencari rezeki..selain mensyukuri rezeki yg slalunya kita tak perasan cthnya susu yg mengalir dr kita utk anak kita. Yang mana, we really need to work hard for what we had agreed to be paid for. Even kalau kita curi tulang and there's no one in the authority nak potong gaji kamu, your rezeki will be cut off in many other forms. Cthnya di uji dgn anak yg degil, di panas kan hubungan antara suami isteri hatta diperlambatkan jodoh utk kita. Hmm..this is really for me sbg peringatan utk tak culas bekerja after this. And there is no harm if you give 130% to what you have been committed for. Allah kan maha melihat and maha mengetahui. He'll pay you what you deserve. Samada diberikan kwn2 yg sentiasa menyenangkan, menimbulkan kesenangan dihati pasangan kita mahupun diberikan anak penyejuk hati yg sentiasa taat dan soleh.Rezeki2 mcm ni lah yg slalunya kita tak nmpak.
Ntahla.This is just my 2cents.bila smp ke bende2 yg ghaib mcm ni hanya Allah yg tahu kedudukan kita. Yang nk pindah, pindahlah..masa saya belum tiba. rezeki saya masih disini. Saya masih boleh ke tempat kerja dgn senang hati..jalan ke ofis beriring suami dan boleh solat ditempat kerja dgn aman.
Duit bukan lah ukuran rezeki semata mata.
For those who have given up hopes and highs, i wish you good luck and bid you farewell.
May the new place you have just invested your whole life into, brings you more happiness and prosperity.
Love,
Zahra
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Blum selesai~
Pantang dh day-33.
Dh final phase dah ni..tapi stock susu still tak buat lagi.
IUD pun xcari lagi clinic mana.aduhai..
Hubby pun dh tnya2 sb dh lama 'puasa'...amboi..byk cantik muka.
100hari yerr.ada paham ka?
huhuhu~
Mm..cepat btul masa berlalu..
ps-update pendek mcm update statu FB jer.
Dh final phase dah ni..tapi stock susu still tak buat lagi.
IUD pun xcari lagi clinic mana.aduhai..
Hubby pun dh tnya2 sb dh lama 'puasa'...amboi..byk cantik muka.
100hari yerr.ada paham ka?
huhuhu~
Mm..cepat btul masa berlalu..
ps-update pendek mcm update statu FB jer.
Monday, June 25, 2012
Amsyar dah SATU bulan :)
Salam ladies,
How's Monday?
Me, in monday blues sb arini daddy dh kena kerja and stay at home til next Friday.
Bosan nya bila my soulmate tak ade..huh.
So, today just a short update about my boys. Amsyar dh 1mth old last Saturday :) Sekejap je rasa. Alhamdulillah, so far still lagi ada rezeki utk Amsyar utk fully breastfed. It would be really a great thing if i have the chance to fully BF Amsyar until he's 2yrs old..tp for now lets go for baby steps dulu. For now, I target for 4mths. Then will work out to 6mths.If ok then we'll see if we could make it till 1yr. I'm not stressing myself to target for the ultimate. We will see the flow..2years is a loooong way to go. Even Iman pun belum 2yrs yet :)
Amsyar's sleeping cycle is now adjusted. yeay!! Good baby :) Mommy suka! :)
Now he sleeps at 11.30pm (nurse until he sleeps), then wake up at 5.30am..bagusnya! Xpelah..coz before he sleeps he will nurse non-stop from8.30pm till 11.30pm tu..15mins ON then OFF.Then nak lagi after 15mins..aduh. Tapi xpe..better than waking up every 2hrs at night. Mommy bleh tidor nyenyak, rest and will have plentiful for you at 5.30am. 5.30 tu mmg dh basah abes t-shirt mommy sume..
Bila dh tido lama mlm, siangnya dia akan main and be awake :) Nurse every hour. And asyikla kena lepuk and cium b y abg Iman. Sian anak mommy..takpelah. One time Amsyar dh seolah2 immune kena puk dgn Iman (--")
As for today, Amsyar xpergi lagi 1mth jab. So I don't know he's current weight..(and how's mommy job on nursing him going on so far). We plan to go tmrw sb with Iman around and daddy's far, we need someone to look after Iman, and someone to drive me. Hmm..after the ceaser xpernah drive myself lagi setakat ni. So we see tomorrow macamane. KKSalak pun OK. Xsesak sgt :)
Iman now is much witty and naughty then ever..geram je mommy nk layan budak cerdik ni :) He even could berlakon nangis and gelak tipu...hehehehe..ckp xyah cakap la..vocab dh bertambah by day :)
Mommy : Iman mana tummy?
Iman : Tummy?Ni..*rubbing his tummy*
Mommy : Daddy?mana daddy?
Iman : Daddy??*cari daddy*
Mommy : Mommy? Sebut mommy?
Iman : *touching me* Mammaaa..
Mommy : Mommy la..sebut mommy.
Iman : Mammmma...MAMMMMAAAAA!!!!!!
Mommy : Mommy la..
Iman : MAMAAAAAAA...!!!!!
Mommy : Eh?
Bleh ek, anak pilih sendiri dia nak panggil kita apa.sebut tummy, daddy semua bleh..bila tang mommy xleh (--!)
Mama pun mama la syg..
Love you both.*kiss*kiss*
How's Monday?
Me, in monday blues sb arini daddy dh kena kerja and stay at home til next Friday.
Bosan nya bila my soulmate tak ade..huh.
So, today just a short update about my boys. Amsyar dh 1mth old last Saturday :) Sekejap je rasa. Alhamdulillah, so far still lagi ada rezeki utk Amsyar utk fully breastfed. It would be really a great thing if i have the chance to fully BF Amsyar until he's 2yrs old..tp for now lets go for baby steps dulu. For now, I target for 4mths. Then will work out to 6mths.If ok then we'll see if we could make it till 1yr. I'm not stressing myself to target for the ultimate. We will see the flow..2years is a loooong way to go. Even Iman pun belum 2yrs yet :)
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| Dh tembam sket :) Tido pas penat main kat playgym. |
Amsyar's sleeping cycle is now adjusted. yeay!! Good baby :) Mommy suka! :)
Now he sleeps at 11.30pm (nurse until he sleeps), then wake up at 5.30am..bagusnya! Xpelah..coz before he sleeps he will nurse non-stop from8.30pm till 11.30pm tu..15mins ON then OFF.Then nak lagi after 15mins..aduh. Tapi xpe..better than waking up every 2hrs at night. Mommy bleh tidor nyenyak, rest and will have plentiful for you at 5.30am. 5.30 tu mmg dh basah abes t-shirt mommy sume..
Bila dh tido lama mlm, siangnya dia akan main and be awake :) Nurse every hour. And asyikla kena lepuk and cium b y abg Iman. Sian anak mommy..takpelah. One time Amsyar dh seolah2 immune kena puk dgn Iman (--")
As for today, Amsyar xpergi lagi 1mth jab. So I don't know he's current weight..(and how's mommy job on nursing him going on so far). We plan to go tmrw sb with Iman around and daddy's far, we need someone to look after Iman, and someone to drive me. Hmm..after the ceaser xpernah drive myself lagi setakat ni. So we see tomorrow macamane. KKSalak pun OK. Xsesak sgt :)
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| Gegar pun mommy suka pic ni..sb nmpak pearly whites Iman :) |
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| Permata-permata hati mommy :) |
Iman now is much witty and naughty then ever..geram je mommy nk layan budak cerdik ni :) He even could berlakon nangis and gelak tipu...hehehehe..ckp xyah cakap la..vocab dh bertambah by day :)
Mommy : Iman mana tummy?
Iman : Tummy?Ni..*rubbing his tummy*
Mommy : Daddy?mana daddy?
Iman : Daddy??*cari daddy*
Mommy : Mommy? Sebut mommy?
Iman : *touching me* Mammaaa..
Mommy : Mommy la..sebut mommy.
Iman : Mammmma...MAMMMMAAAAA!!!!!!
Mommy : Mommy la..
Iman : MAMAAAAAAA...!!!!!
Mommy : Eh?
Bleh ek, anak pilih sendiri dia nak panggil kita apa.sebut tummy, daddy semua bleh..bila tang mommy xleh (--!)
Mama pun mama la syg..
Love you both.*kiss*kiss*
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