Its May! Anniversary!!!!!

Hello May!

Its our fifth yr anniversary month! Not yet the date but its May bebehhh. And so we're entering our second phase our marriage already alhamdulillah. Lots of gives and takes and lots of quarrels along the way..but the spark is still there as always, we would like to have it forever. And grow old together, Inshallah.



Two thing i'd like to share from our 5yrs of sharing, is purely sharing :)

Yups sharing i tell you. From stories to gossips to stress work to mishaps to even what we disliked from the day at work. Also some politics and social sciences to color it all. True you know. its the companionship we cherish. Becoming each other's bff. And to rather spend time with each other than anyone else in the world. Ewahh semangatnya ;p. And ps- We share toothbrushes too.Yups that's one thing.


And another one is..... we share our drinking glass, coffee mug, tumbler..you name it. Late night coffee will always be one mug only, even fast foodies order will be only 3cups-one for Iman, one for amsyar and one for mommy&daddy. I don't know, its sunnah, and we just feel like its natural :)



The next thing is..ahemm..next time la eh..when the kids are sleeping we pillow talk.
Dah cukup 2 things kannnnnn?

Till then tatatititutu.

I love you :)

Oh my birthday is on the 5th.FYI kikikiki

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Doa Untuk Anak Anak Mommy

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

O Allah, be kind to me through the survival of my children,

setting them right for me, and allowing me to enjoy them.

My God, make long their lives for me,

increase their terms, bring up the smallest for me,

strengthen the weakest for me,

rectify for me their bodies, their religious dedication, and their moral traits,

make them well in their souls, their limbs,

and everything that concerns me of their affair,

and pour out for me and upon my hand their provisions!

Make them pious, fearing, insightful, hearing,

and obedient toward Thee, loving and well-disposed toward Thy friends,

and stubbornly resistant and full of hate toward all Thy enemies! Amen!

O Allah, through them strengthen my arm,

straighten my burdened back, multiply my number,

adorn my presence, keep alive my mention,

suffice me when I am away, help me in my needs,

and make them loving toward me, affectionate, approaching, upright, obedient,

Never disobedient, disrespectful, opposed, or offenders!

Help me in their upbringing, their education, and my devotion toward them,

give me among them from Thyself male children,

make that a good for me, and make them a help for me in that which I ask from Thee!

Give me and my progeny refuge from the accursed Satan,

for Thou hast created us, commanded us, and prohibited us, and made us desire

the reward of what Thou hast commanded, and fear its punishment!

Ameen.

Great tips. Mommy like! :)

About Interviews


When they ask about your weaknesses tell them you are terrible at interviews. I have always gotten laughs when I have said it and after that I find the interview easier because everyone seems to be in a better mood.


I tend to give this advice a lot to my students: Too many people look at a job interview like it’s a test. It’s very easy to feel like we have to prove ourselves to the employer and show our good qualities. This isn’t what an interview is, though. The simple fact is that something, whether it was your resume, application, whatever, made this prospective employer interested enough in you to call you in for an interview. They are using the interview to figure out reasons why they SHOULDN’T hire you. So stop focusing so much on making yourself appear to be the best employee in the world. It comes off as forced. No one is perfect, and no one is that clean. Stay comfortable, and simply explain why you’re better than the other guys.



No one will blow your horn for you, except for you. A job interview is not the place for false modesty. Be clear, but not boastful, about your accomplishments and qualities.



Keep calm and tell them what they want to hear. Smile every once in a while and take your time answering the questions but not with too much detail if you bore them you‘re out. It’s like playing a part in a movie. Take it like that. If you don’t make it ask them for feedback in order to improve.

About parenting 

 To avoid kids wearing  the side of shoes :)

To avoid little hands squeezing the juice box.

Alternative for those who don't like mommy to cook alone.





Once in a while usage of huge boxes!





Bathtime galore to ensure no slippage in the tub :)





Have a nice Thursday lovelies!
Still fighting over my CIMB RM1000.
Wish me luck :)

13 Ways You Know You’re Dating A High-Quality Woman

ByChrissy Stockton

Macam best je..so kita letak sini as ingatan.

Bila bila nak baca boleh buka balik menghiburkan hati :)

Applicable for you know you've MARRIED a high quality woman as well ;p

Make sure you're one :) Beauty is not THE ONLY quality men need.

13 Ways You Know You’re Dating A High-Quality Woman

1. She encourages you to pursue your goals, but she doesn't micromanage. She trusts you to make the right decisions in your own life. She’s the cheerleader, not the coach.

2. She doesn't try to make you jealous. She’s secure in her worth, and your ability to recognize how valuable she is. She doesn't need to play games to “trick” you into seeing her her for what she is.

3. She doesn't have a princess complex. She demands that you treat her with respect — but because she is a person you love, not because she is a woman and therefore magically entitled to something. Just as she would expect you to treat your friends and family with respect, she knows you wouldn't treat her any other way. A high-quality woman wouldn't be with a man who was disrespectful to the people he is close to in life.

4. She has a part of her life that doesn't involve you. Friends, hobbies, career — whatever. She’s confident and independent enough to not need your involvement in everything she does.

5. You wouldn't think twice about inviting her into different parts of your life: a barbecue with your college friends, a dinner with your parents, a fancy work party — she knows how to handle herself in different settings. She’s mature enough to make a good impression with your colleagues and wise enough to know letting loose with your friends and having fun doesn't mean she’s immature.

6. She takes care of herself. This doesn't mean she is perfect, it means she is always improving. You don’t have to tell her she needs to solve a problem in her life. She’s self-aware and sees what issues she has and is self-motivated enough to constantly be working to improve them. She needs a partner, not a dad.

7. When she is in a situation where she doesn't know people, she introduces herself confidently. She doesn't cling meekly to your side waiting for you to facilitate every social interaction.

8. A reasonable, non-hyper-conservative employer could look at her social media presence and hire her.

9. She isn’t shy about sex. If she doesn’t want to do something, she can articulate why instead of just saying “ew”. Your sex life with her isn’t a shady secret she feels uncomfortable talking about, it’s adult and healthy and you both work to keep the flame alive.

10. She has opinions more than “idk” and she can talk calmly and non-hyperbolically about them. If she disagrees with you, you can have a conversation about it without anyone raising their voice.

11. She would never joke with her friends or family (or worse, your friends or family) about how men are “stupid” or childish, or whatever “happy wife happy life” mantra you’ve heard women use to put down the partners they love.

12. She knows what she wants in life. She doesn’t change her values or goals to tailor fit the guy she is with.

13. You feel lucky to be dating her because you know she would never date anyone just to date them. She isn’t afraid to be single and she is self-sufficient. You know she is dating you because she’s attracted to you and she thinks that you will help each other grow to be even higher quality, together.


**"idk"= i don't know

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Sharing something useful :)

Day 5 #mh370 .Our hopes are still there.

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